Swinging as a single man may at first seem impossible –  there is a sea of other men, single women seem revered and rare, events often charge more for entry or prohibit you entirely - and yet the single man, if he knows what he’s doing, is among the best placed of individuals to become king of the swingers.
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The consensual non-monogamous community has a long and varied history with tattoos and symbols. Although swinging is still taboo in most social circles, sex with multiple partners, polyamorous relationships and open marriages are almost as old as infidelity itself. Nowadays people start to be out and proud and get tattoos to convey more or less secretly their sexual orientation and preferences. Swinger tattoos like sexy statements, a queen of spade, the upside down pineapple or the swing symbol help other swingers to spot and attract each other easier in bars, in vacation and on the nudist beach. Tattoos and the open-minded society of swingers, hotwives and other non-monogamous communities go now hand in hand and it's a trend that's on the rise.

For this post, I thought that I would treat you, my lovely readers, to something a little different. Instead of an article detailing all how you can become sexy, savvy swingers, I thought I'd share with you the details of my first swinging experience; aren’t you lucky? So, slip into something comfortable, and let thiskindagirl do all the talking.

In the swinger community most swingers are couples. But there are also single women known as “unicorn”, willing to join an existing couple. What about females who are in a relationship, but meet without their partner? Arianna describes herself as "Unicorn in an open relationship". She shared with us her threesome experience with a swinger couple in a a somewhat unconventional location: a strip club...

Whether you're exploring the swinger lifestyle for the first time or have enjoyed shared passions in the past, introducing a new partner to swinging is a complex and delicate experience. In a world where we are socialized to believe that monogamy is the "norm" (how boring!), sometimes both we and our partners must disconnect from this unnecessary programming in order to get in touch with our true sexual selves. The only real, healthy, active swinging relationship that can exist is one with mutual consent, so it's key to get the discussion started in a respectful way that acknowledges your partner's needs, insecurities and boundaries.

Ginger shared us her story about how she and her husband met another couple in Maspalomas with the help of the swinger symbol worn on their jewelry...

​We're continually hearing that we could be having better sex, a superior climax, or a superior relationship. Be that as it may, how regularly do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can, in reality, better understand our most profound wants and most embarrassing questions? In an article published in BUSTLE, Vanessa Marin, a sex advisor, and therapist enlightened us to go out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. 

Planning a threesome and choosing the right play partner is a fragile and complex task. On the off chance that you mess it up, you could demolish your relationship and life forever. Just joking. Be that as it may, there is a craftsmanship, and etiquette, to organizing a ménage à trois. It resembles an evening gathering - one wrong visitor and the entire dynamics are off.

Each couple in this lifestyle makes various guidelines to secure their relationship. These principles will often evolve after some time to all the more likely match that works for the couple's relationship.

If your marriage has been monogamous, and you’re thinking about some kind of non-monogamy, at that point you’re considering about a change. Change is a risk. In another circumstance, you may end up shocked by your emotions and needs and decisions. You may wind up astonished by other individuals’ emotions and necessities and decisions. You may find that these sudden emotions and necessities and decisions are not the stable feelings and needs and choices you have had envisioned - and truth be told, “The reality upsets us”.