Each couple in this lifestyle makes various guidelines to secure their relationship. These principles will often evolve after some time to all the more likely match that works for the couple's relationship.

If your marriage has been monogamous, and you’re thinking about some kind of non-monogamy, at that point you’re considering about a change. Change is a risk. In another circumstance, you may end up shocked by your emotions and needs and decisions. You may wind up astonished by other individuals’ emotions and necessities and decisions. You may find that these sudden emotions and necessities and decisions are not the stable feelings and needs and choices you have had envisioned - and truth be told, “The reality upsets us”.

As exciting and wonderful the rewards of swinging can be, the flip side of the lifestyle genuinely comes with some real stresses and risks. You must have brainstorming discussions with your partner to check whether you are both comfortable with the dangers and share your concerns with each other. You need to cooperate when deciding if the risks involved in swinging are worth taking in your stable relationship along with its potential rewards.

​In spite of the fact that most of the swinging will finish up involving lovemaking and getting frisky with one another’s partners, it isn’t as simple as that. Swinging is about creating an atmosphere of warmth and being pleasured.

​Contrary to popular thoughts that there are no signs or symbols that swingers use to attract different swingers, in many cases, it appears that a few people are continually searching for a systematic approach to check out whether a friend, neighbor or colleague is a swinger.

Just as couples are becoming more open-minded about sexuality, other ideas such as minimalism and location independence are emerging. While the digital nomad movement may be more appealing to single 20-somethings, even married couples with more experience may revive their relationships with this lifestyle.
While it may be away from one's comfort zone, libertines can still find new sexual experiences in any country around the globe. Especially considering how connected our world is with the internet, getting laid as a couple is easier than ever. ​