How to Find Other Swinging Couples in Just about Any Country

Just as couples are becoming more open-minded about sexuality, other ideas such as minimalism and location independence are emerging. While the digital nomad movement may be more appealing to single 20-somethings, even married couples with more experience may revive their relationships with this lifestyle.
While it may be away from one's comfort zone, libertines can still find new sexual experiences in any country around the globe. Especially considering how connected our world is with the internet, getting laid as a couple is easier than ever. ​

Why Travel As a Couple? 

Traveling as a couple can bring you closer together and flesh out each other's strengths and weaknesses. immersing in a new culture on the other side of the globe presents new challenges, experiences, and pleasures.
Patience and flexibility are key to traveling as a couple since you may want different things out of your holiday. You both will have to make compromises on what you want to visit, where you want to eat, and whom you want to meet.
It's also easier to travel as a pair as you have emotional support on-hand during the stressful stretches of travel. You will also be brought physically closer by smooshed together in plane or seats and hotel beds. 

Where to Find Sex Abroad

Only a minority of couples are interested in group sex and it will vary as you transit between different cultures. Fortunately, most countries still have swingers, whether it is underground or relatively open. If you just want to go on a libertine-centered holiday, check out this guide on libertine destinations.

Classifieds Websites 

With the death of Backpage and Craigslist's personals section, you will have to diversify your search for other swingers. Fortunately, several smaller classifieds sites around the world are attempting to fill that gap.

Craigslist had definitely been the most dynamic website with various combinations like "mw4mw", "mw4w" and many more. It is still usable by those skirting the rules and using the community section to create PG-rated posts, vaguely hinting at hooking up. The downside is that Craigslist isn't frequented in all countries you are interested in traveling to, although fellow tourists may stumble upon your ads.

Locanto is another international consideration and it's popular in Latin America, South & Southeast Asia, and some parts of Europe. The main benefit is that it’s typically used by locals over tourists, giving you a chance to cross cultural barriers via group sex. The categories to watch are "Couples Seeking Women", "Couples Seeking Men", and "Couples Seeking Couples".
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For Spain and Latin America, Wanuncios is a relatively active classified site for adult listings. Looking past the all the escort ads, check out the "Pareja Busca Pareja" section for swinging couples.

As for the United States, the supposed crackdown on human trafficking has spooked many classifieds sites into removing anything sexual of nature. While it is relatively small, Oodle deserves a special mention as people may still freely post dating ads, including swingers.

Dating Websites & Applications 

There are specialized dating websites for swingers, although not all should be considered trustworthy. Some good examples would be SLS, Kasidie, or Swinglifestyle. For French-speaking libertines, Wyylde is another solid choice.

General dating sites and mobile apps are also applicable if you approach it the right way. Even with applications that don't necessarily cover couples, each one of you may go rogue looking to lure in some singles.

With a relatively recent update to OKCupid, couples link together accounts and send messages to singles or other couples. According to a 2016 report, nearly half of the website' userbase was open to dating others in an open relationship.

Badoo is a growing international dating app that's available in both web browsers and just about any mobile phone. While there isn't a filter for swinging couples, users are free to upload photos and write a thorough profile to make their intentions clear. If you're going to Latin America or Southeast Asia, this app is a must-have.

Fetlife is another consideration as you may find lots of sexually flexible individuals and couples. While the site is BDSM centric, many applicable fetishes are in the mix including cuckoldry and partner swapping. Creating a profile is much like any other social media site and you can be as thorough or scant with your profile as you see fit. There are active groups in nearly every corner of the world, making it suitable for finding hookups on-the-go. 

Tinder

While dating applications were already broadly covered, Tinder deserves its own category due to the massive international user base. When traveling abroad, you will find it populated by a mix of locals, expatriates, and other vacation goers, widening your options immensely.

Considering you are in a new place, you don't have to worry about anonymity and creating secondary Facebook accounts. If you wish, simply write in your profile that you're a swinging couple and explain exactly what you're looking for. Be sure to include attractive couple photos so they know what to expect.

Another approach is to use individual profiles to bait men or women into your group sex sessions. Considering how one-sided Tinder is, female profiles will be much easier and faster to get a threesome going. Of course, not all cultures are exactly open to this, so you should still put a disclaimer in your bait profiles.
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If you are in an area with lots of users, it's worth investing in a Tinder Plus or Tinder Gold account to get unlimited swipes and the ability swipe in other locations. It may also be worth purchasing a Tinder Boost to put your profile the stack during peak hours. Be sure to reserve your limited Super Likes for other swingers to get their attention. 

Libertine Groups

With the help of social media, it's quite easy to find the hottest Swinger group within minutes. Using MeetUp as an example, filtering "swinger" as a topic will display plenty of groups, especially in North America and Europe. Groups are also plentiful on Facebook and easily found through the search function.

If you are more serious, you may join a serious Libertine club that vets couples to save everyone's time. While groups will vary in rules and may even mix in a few singles, most will have some interview process to see if you are a good fit. 

Bars And Night Clubs

Crawling bars or night clubs is the obvious choice for young single folks to get laid, but it's still a ripe playing field for married couples. With drinks, dancing, and overwhelming music, it's the perfect place to convince young men and women to try something new.
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You have to realize that not everyone goes to the bar to get laid, so patience is key and you need to respect everyone's personal space initially. Be conscious of who is making eye contact with you or your partner.

Even in a random bar, you may encounter couples coming in for drinks.  Since not all of them are blatant swingers, you will have to greet them, give them cheesy compliments and see how they react with their body language. A few couples may advertise their sexual openness with the swinger symbol on their wristband or any other jewelry or tattoo.

While not everywhere in the world, you can find establishments that specifically cater to libertine couples. Think of these places as places of sexual networks rather than orgy clubs, so don't with vulgarities. People are not there to be objectified and you should look for people you get along with over those with the hottest bodies.

Swinging In New Cultures

Cultures have different views of sex around in the world, including swinging. Pretty much all western countries, including Latin America, are OK with swinging legally, albeit with some moral reservations. Luckily, most of the world is following the lead with the liberation of marital laws.

Unfortunately, still a handful of countries that consider swinging adultery and a crime. Predominantly in Muslim countries, imprisonment or even the death penalty is on the books. Having said that, Dubai and other locations with foreign influence, swinger parties are still a thing but kept underground for obvious reasons.

While the Philippines is a frequent destination for all sorts of sex tourism or holidays, local couples still live under the thumb of its old-fashioned government. Wives are targeted for punishment in cases of infidelity while husbands are charged under more specific circumstances. Having said that, the community is still active and even have a dedicated Reddit group.

In India, adultery is no longer a criminal offense but their conservative culture still frowns upon it. Their previous laws had imprisoned males for up to five years while females were immune to prosecution. As the law had been carried over from British colonialism and went against gender equality, adultery had swiftly been legalized in 2018.

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Living as a swinger on-the-go is certainly more challenging yet you open yourself up to priceless experiences, sexual or not. If you are in a sound financial position by making money via the internet or investments, you may consider living as digital nomads for long-term global sexual escapades.